Pick and choose your battles. And communicate! I’m always so upfront with everything and I’ve learned to really take a step back and think about whether or not this is worth a fight.
For Brandon and I, it’s about setting aside special time together. It’s something so small like just going every morning to pick up coffee, muffins, and bagels–that drive is our special time together, even if it’s just to go see the morning sky out here while we drink our coffee. Or, we pick a show or movie to binge watch together!